similarities domestic violence
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and cult/sect
abuse |
- Here you recurringly see how fear and repression cause the
goal: slavish compliance.
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Here I use slavish compliance because it is broadly opposed to:
power, (rights) positioning, depth, general freedom, self-realization,
independence, equality, dignity, happiness and prosperity as well as
knowledge (who asks, already knows something)
- Many of the behavioral effects can be created remotely. You do NOT need a close visible guru or followers to plague you with judgement and correction or 'high'; to persuade and trick you into a resulting docility, intimidation and mind control
- Sects (criminal organizations) are 'closed communities' but
often only a word in a larger sence of meaning ..and they sting
throughout the year.
- We too, the public, however diluted, have to deal with
behavioral influence.
- A person must know that it is important to have good knowledge.
It is just as important to know that every person is susceptible to the greatest nonsense.
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Big brothers silent hurde of brownshirts,
pumping around their 'influenze', and by order help to shield & roadblock, falsify, fuck over and change the lives and intentions of people into fear, nothingness and wasteland while keeping injustice and oppression alive and well. Too shady but too mapped out.
Arrest that provoking, entrapping organized bunch of shit strepsils and throw it inside a desert jail is my idea. Simply because it disrupts everything, everywhere.
- Stop venom, competition and vanity. Help each other! Talk and write it down. So things excist.
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| Social control
No privacy.
Perpetrators check the relations of their
partner, what is read and where he or she is going;
everything that lies beyond their sphere of influence is
limited by them. If one asks: "Why?" then one hears 'nonsense'.
Ridiculization. Intellectual undermining and disdain. |
Social control
No privacy.Sects control with whom the individual is allowed
to get along.
Sects employ/exercise their power
on things like; what one may read or, how one
lives. Part of monitoring.
Knowledge ('outside') is a big NO-NO. Your self-knowledge is doubted!
If you are not an acceptable 'authority', than no independent (self) knowledge.
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| Financial abuse
Perpetrators may prevent their partners from getting paid jobs.
Let her ask for money,take away her own money/income, forbid
access and insight to the family income. |
Financial abuse
Sects often expect a large part of
a person's income, including the 'legal' remittance
of possessions and money sources |
| Use of children
A perpetrator can use the children to make a
partner feel guilty, threaten the
children to hurt them, alienate the
children from their parent. Excuse tools. |
Use of children
They can threaten to hurt the
children to gain power over the
parents. Excuse tools. Often used to frustrate outside 'targets'. The abuse of children by Sects can be emotional, spiritual
and physical. Rarely are there members/people in and around cults informing authorities. It's a cryin shame. Those fake knights. |
| Coercion and threats
Perpetrators threaten their partners to hurt them and
use guilt and fear and other
emotional manipulations to keep their life companions under their
control. Blame and 'guilt' tricks |
Coercion and threats
Sects often use 'guilt' and fear and other
emotional manipulations to keep their members and targets under their
control. Fake scare-real scare. Slander. Blame and 'guilt' tricks. |
| Downplaying/Blaming
Perpetrators refuse to take responsibility
for their assaults and abuse; they say it's the partners fault
and ignore, lie or reduce the abuse. |
Downplaying/Blaming
Sects assure themselves that incase there Really is something wrong
, it is the fault of the individual. Critical thinking
about or questioning the group is not allowed. |
| Powerless/Helplessness
Perpetrators make sure that the partner
depends on them. 'Dissapointments & faults'. Learned
helplessness is cultivated, feelings of being 'not good enough'. Attack on the person. Compulsions. |
Powerless/Helplessness
Sects systematically create a sense of individual
helplessness by using a (subtle) system of rewards and penalties. Dependence, obediance are trained. Compulsions and low selfesteem may be present. |
| Attack on the own identity/self
The result of domestic psychological violence can be a
broken self, an empty shell.
'I Feel no longer as a whole person'. Behavioral change. Addiction, numbness escapisme occurs |
Attack on the own identity/self
Sects destabilize the sense, awareness of self,
reinterpret reality according to the Group and leader(s) and create a sectarian knots and crust identity. Threading and tainting. We is all.. Endless stubborness, duality and focus. Self-deceit, addiction, stoic effect and empty-shell feelings can occur. Personality change. |
| Performance oriented
As long as you do whats being told its gonna be allright.
"..I must try not to upset him tonight". |
Performance oriented
'Happiness' and obligation are measured by
performance and being exhausted. Stay or suffer the consequences. |
| Side effects
Many abused partners and others experience symptoms
that match those of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
And it can happen to Anyone.
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Side effects
One of the most common psychiatric disorders victims are suffering from is PTSD or post traumatic stress disorder.
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